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Something like a Cole dual density in the 5" size might be farther along than you want but it's pretty close to start size for some. Early2Bed sells them for about 30 bucks and they're realistic-ish but I don't know if that's a drawback.

They come in different colors - blue, pink, white, black, etc. Importantly, they're silicone which means they're well made. They also have a Cole Classic that's 4" instead of 5 if that's less intimidating.

I just got a 9 inch long, 1.5 inch thick one with a suction cup from amazon. Can ride it on the floor, use it manually, or doggy it. It's a good catch-all.

I sometimes ponder a giant monster tentacle, but I worry what that might do to me. ^_^

Whatever you get, I would recommend it at least has some texturing on it. The little bumps on the veins and the head are what trigger all your nerves inside and feel good. Especially after a prolonged session when you get all swollen and super sensitive!

If you NEED something to warm up with, amazon has these like cheap 5 packs (in different sizes) of tapered silicon plugs you can get. (see attached pic)

I got the Cole in pink primarily for oral fun its quite good esp with a flavoured lube. Its also good for backdoor adventures not too thick or bendy